Follow your gut. And you'd have a better gut than a lot of peopleI'd wager. Even the worst assholes have good points. It's not black and white ever.
I don't like this person just from what I see in common and personally I wish a dog would eat his modem so he'd disappear offline. Just seeing his posts makes my skin crawl personally.
But you have to do what you feel right doing. I, personally, am cynical and untrusting so I may not be the best advice-giver though.
But if it was me in your shoes I'd run, run fast and run far and not look back or show Sarah his energy, tell her how he feels to you, tell her you aren't comfortable around him and have her tell him that you don't want to talk to him and that if your name is in the status not to poke you.
Either way, that might be a little extreme. But you do need to tell Sarah. I have Alissa behind me going "He's a dick." But she says to do what you feel and don't take her word for it. It's just she's had to deal with his system and himself on a personal and moderator basis and hated it.
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Date: 2009-07-02 01:12 am (UTC)Follow your gut. And you'd have a better gut than a lot of peopleI'd wager. Even the worst assholes have good points. It's not black and white ever.
I don't like this person just from what I see in common and personally I wish a dog would eat his modem so he'd disappear offline. Just seeing his posts makes my skin crawl personally.
But you have to do what you feel right doing. I, personally, am cynical and untrusting so I may not be the best advice-giver though.
But if it was me in your shoes I'd run, run fast and run far and not look back or show Sarah his energy, tell her how he feels to you, tell her you aren't comfortable around him and have her tell him that you don't want to talk to him and that if your name is in the status not to poke you.
Either way, that might be a little extreme. But you do need to tell Sarah. I have Alissa behind me going "He's a dick." But she says to do what you feel and don't take her word for it. It's just she's had to deal with his system and himself on a personal and moderator basis and hated it.
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