Is it one of us? I have no idea if anyone here has said or done something they shouldn't... or given impressions they shouldn't, either. I surely hope it's not me, because if so, I obviously am completely clueless. :(

Whomever it is, I was in such a similar situation recently, and I just eventually had to call it off with the person who was causing the trouble... negative energy goes a long way, unfortunately.

-Whit